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Making Co-Parenting Work After Your Divorce
Unless you have extenuating circumstances, odds are that you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse will share parental responsibilities of your children. In an amicable divorce, this might not be a problem. But how does that work when you can barely stand to be in the same room together? When there are so many hurt and angry feelings? The trick is to know where the focus should be.
Stay Child-Focused
No matter what happened in your marriage, no matter how poor of a spouse your ex is, it is important to remember that the time after the divorce is no longer about you as a couple; it is now about your child and what your child needs from each of you. That means that, whenever you are tempted to lash out at your ex, you leave your child out of it. When you are struggling to reach an agreement about who will take your child next holiday or over the summer, you try to think of what is best for your child. And, when you speak about your ex and your child is around, keep in mind that you are talking about their other parent and the words that you say can hurt.
Non-Family Dogs, Highest Dog Bite Attacks
Statistics show that in 2015, non-family dogs inflicted the majority of dog bite fatalities—59 percent. Nearly one-third, or 32 percent, of all dog bite fatality victims were either visiting or living temporarily with the dog owners when the fatal attacks occurred. Children 9-years-old and younger accounted for 82 percent of these deaths.
Why Dogs Bite
The natural reason why dogs bite is because they feel they are being attacked or challenged. This causes their predatory instincts to come into play. Even play fighting can turn into next level violence if their aggression is pushed enough. Males and children under 9 years of age are often on the receiving end of these attacks.
Additionally, the American Veterinary Medical Foundation (AVMF) states that dogs that are stressed or scared may also lash out. For instance, when a dog is ill, his or her temperament may change for the worse. Types of injuries that can be inflicted include bite marks, deep gashes, fatal organ punctures, traumatic brain injuries, and extensive flesh wounds which may result in fatality.
Conditions on Permanent Residency
International marriage is becoming common. In order to make it work, however, there are legalities that must be observed, and many people wind up in trouble due to being unaware of such requirements. One of the most important is having conditions placed on your permanent residency, and how to apply to remove them. This is done to cut down on fraudulent “green card” marriages, but it can cause problems even for those in true relationships.
Conditions Placed on Permanent Residency
If you are engaged to marry a U.S. citizen, or if you have been married for less than two years upon your entry into the U.S., you are entitled to apply for permanent residence. However, if successful, you will receive a conditional grant of permanent residency, valid for two years only. United States Citizenship & Immigration Services (USCIS) will then more fully investigate your background and bona fides during that two year period.
Blind Spots Still Ignored, Causing Casualties
Blind spots continue to be a great concern on roads and highways. Statistics from the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration (NHTSA) indicate that in each of the last 5 years there were about 850,000 reported blind-spot accidents with between 300 to 500 deaths. Yet despite these numbers, some drivers have yet to master the basics of road safety.
Distracted drivers, impaired drivers, speeding drivers, and drivers under the influenced all contribute to accidents and tragedies on the roads. However, the most simple safety precautions are not being utilized.
The Blind Zone or the Twilight Zone?
Drivers now have vehicles equipped with several new features to help avoid accidents, yet these vehicles are not designed solely to eliminate the need for driver attentiveness.
What is a blind spot or blind zone?
Blind spots are "areas near the left and right rear corners of your vehicle that you cannot see in your rear-view mirrors." AAA has expanded upon this definition to include the area directly behind a vehicle which cannot be seen in the rear-view mirror because it is too low and /or too close to the back of the vehicle. Hence, the blind zone requires a driver to actually turn his or her head in order to see the other vehicle in that blind spot.
Tips for a Successful Divorce Mediation
Divorce is never an easy process, but mediation can sometimes help couples reach an agreement faster, and with less stress. Of course, it might not be for everyone – particularly those that have a history of domestic violence or simply cannot be in the same room together – but for those that choose to pursue it, some information about the divorce mediation process, and about how to successfully reach an agreement, can be helpful.
About the Mediation Process
Mediation is most beneficial for couples who are willing to at least attempt to communicate about the particulars of their divorce in an effort to reach an amicable agreement. All aspects of the divorce may be mediated, including the division of debts and assets, child-related issues, and spousal or child support. This can be a particularly effective method for those who have uncomplicated divorces, or for those that already have at least some common ground or, at the very least, agree that the needs of their child should come first. But even still, there are strategies that each party should employ during the mediation process.
Criminal Convictions Under Immigration Law
Most people are aware nowadays that there are several different varieties of criminal conviction. However, when dealing with immigration law, the lines blur. It can be a rude awakening to learn that in some instances, even misdemeanors can result in your being declared inadmissible or deportable.
While it is possible to obtain waivers or other decisions that result in your being permitted to stay in the U.S., your best defense against being found deportable is to be aware of what kind of conduct is proscribed.
The Myth of the Aggravated Felony
U.S. immigration law centers around what are referred to as aggravated felonies, though not all the crimes on the list are actual felonies under U.S. criminal law. If you are convicted of an aggravated felony, you are immediately deportable, and in many cases, you will not be permitted to return. Or, you will have to face a long bar before re-entry is possible. The only real characteristic that these crimes share is being on the list that labels them as aggravated felonies–which, as one might imagine, makes it difficult to accurately know what constitutes an aggravated felony and what does not.
Injuries from an Avoidable Fall
Big cities can present several different dangers—busy streets, heavy traffic volume, people rushing to their next destination, construction sites dotted through neighborhoods. Pedestrians are at a very high risk of injury from erratic drivers, dangerous intersections, and falling debris from buildings that have code violations.
However, what happens when you slip, trip and fall in a situation which was preventable—one in which a building owner should have been aware? You may have a legal case to pursue.
Over 700,000 patients a year are hospitalized because of a fall injury, most often resulting in a head injury or hip fracture. If you have fallen and suffered an injury, retaining a personal injury attorney is a crucial first step to make. If your legal team can prove a solid claim, you may be entitled to monetary compensation for your injuries.
Even After Changes to Illinois Family Law, Fathers Need to Protect Their Rights
Senate Bill 57 has brought about a lot of changes to the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (IMDMA); focus is now clearly set to ensure that the best interest of children take priority, and removal of certain terms and legal barriers are meant to reduce anger and squabbling during proceedings. However, there are still some matters that fathers should address with due diligence once the papers have been served.
Read (and Make Sure You Understand) Everything
Divorce paperwork can be lengthy, boring, and a little confusing at times. But this packet outlines all the information submitted by your soon-to-be ex-spouse, including their terms of relocation, child support, and the allotment of parenting time. Failure to thoroughly read and understand this paperwork can have drastic consequences, especially for those with a disgruntled or vindictive spouse; knowing what you are up against is your first and most important line of defense.
Should I Naturalize?
It is quite common in this day and age for foreign nationals to live in the United States for long periods of time without naturalizing their citizenship, primarily for professional and financial reasons. However, for the average person, many simply do not realize the benefits that come with becoming a U.S. citizen. If you have the choice before you regarding whether or not to naturalize, it is very important that you know the positives and negatives both before making any decisions.
Advantages
One might imagine that many advantages of becoming a U.S. citizen are self-evident, especially if one has business interests in the country. Citizenship is the only way to entirely avoid the spectre of deportation, as even lawful permanent residents (LPRs, or ‘green card’ holders) are susceptible to being deported if they are found guilty of certain crimes. Citizenship may be taken away, but there is a very specific, narrow set of circumstances that would need to occur for one’s naturalization to be revoked. Also, a citizen does not have to assiduously maintain a residency in the country; if he or she wishes to spend time abroad, he or she may do so without facing any kind of immigration penalty upon his or her return.
Divorce Preparedness Can Decrease Stress, Save Money, and Encourage an Amicable Divorce
Even under the best of circumstances, divorce proceedings are stressful for all involved. If you plan appropriately, however, it is possible to minimize that stress. As an added bonus, proper planning can help save money and, in many cases, encourage a more amicable divorce. Reap all of these benefits using the following divorce planning tips.
Take an Asset and Expense Inventory
Child support, division of marital assets, and other financial particulars of a divorce are based upon what you and your spouse own as both individuals, and as a couple. Unfortunately, once the proceedings start, this information may be difficult to locate (this is especially true if your spouse is trying to hide any assets to keep more of the money for themselves). Avoid this hassle (and reduce your risk of losing out on money that may be owed to you) by taking a preemptive approach prior to filing.